My Reflection on Ableism in Schools
Disability advocacy in schools is something that I have always been aware of as I have a younger sister with autism. In fact, advocating for her and other people with disabilities is exactly what inspired me to want to become a teacher. There are plenty of parts to this article and video that I can discuss and relate to my sister's experiences in school.
My sister is fifteen years old now, but she has been diagnosed with autism since she was a preschooler. She has low-functioning autism, and to be blunt, she has had quite the rollercoaster experience in the school system. At the beginning of this article, I understand Penny's struggle to provide an appropriate education for her child. In fact, Hehir highlights how disappointing it is that many teachers do not have the training to accommodate to a child's disability. Every disability presents itself a little differently depending on the person, as Hehir explains. My sister's autism didn't look like any of the other students in her elementary school classes. I remember being in fifth grade and having to help calm my sister in kindergarten as she had a meltdown because her teacher couldn't understand what was wrong. I would hear my sister screaming throughout the school, would politely ask my teacher if I could go assist her, and luckily, my teacher was understanding about this situation. Obviously, I wanted to comfort my sister because that's my gut instinct, but my education should not have had to be interrupted because her kindergarten teacher did not know how to handle a child with a severe disability. This sounds harsh, but one of Hehir's idea to end ableism in schools is to ensure every teacher has these skills and is able to accommodate every child.
As my sister grew older and transitioned from middle to high school, there were a variety of times my family had to advocate for her. My sister qualified for a one-to-one aid, and the school district decided they were going to move this aid to a different school, despite working with my sister since she was in fifth grade. Then, COVID hit, and this problem was harder to discuss with the school district. On top of all of this, my sister was told that she was going to fail eighth grade for the year, since she wasn't completing assignments during the pandemic. Once again, my sister had a one-to-one in person, but not virtually. My sister had to navigate COVID schooling practically on her own, as everyone in my family was working full-time, and I was a senior in high school. The fighting that my family had to do in order to ensure my sister would move onto high school was insane. Abandoning my sister disproved Hehir's ideas that disabled students should be allowed to use skills that are most efficient for them and that they have their own specialized education. Rather than any of her teachers reaching out to my sister, they abandoned her at a time where she really needed the extra hand to guide her.
I could continue on for awhile, but luckily, my sister is in a wonderful life skills program now in high school. I wrote all of this to really prove Hehir's points in how to end ableism in schools. There needs to be clear standards for special educators to recognize that every child is different and will need a different approach to education. We need to listen to disabled students' needs if we want to let them know we do care about their success. Finally, I talked to my sister about how the person in the Examined Life video felt about going in public and feeling as if it's political. We related this to how sometimes autistic people feel as if they need to mask themselves and disguise their disability. I wish this world hasn't made people with disabilities feel this way, and I think both this video and Hehir's ideas prove that we need to talk about these feelings more to normalize them/bring awareness.
Hyperlink: https://www.wested.org/wested-bulletin/news/ensuring-success-students-with-disabilities-pandemic/